What Do You Say at the Altar? Let ChatGPT Decide婚禮上說(shuō)什么？讓ChatGPT決定

Molly Price and Erik Sorensen are getting married in October. AI is helping with the details.

莫莉·普賴斯與埃里克·索倫森計(jì)劃在10月結(jié)婚。人工智能（AI）正在協(xié)助他們處理婚禮的各種細(xì)節(jié)。

The couple told Insider they used ChatGPT and other AI assistants to help write vows and a website.

這對(duì)情侶向商業(yè)內(nèi)幕網(wǎng)站透露，他們利用ChatGPT及其他AI助手來(lái)幫助撰寫(xiě)婚禮誓詞和建設(shè)婚禮網(wǎng)站。

Price said that the AI tools have helped ease some of her pre-wedding stress.

普賴斯表示，這些AI工具緩解了她在婚禮前的一些壓力。

Molly Price， a 28-year-old customer-experience coordinator from Denver is getting married to her fiancé， Erik Sorensen， at the end of October. But ChatGPT knows that already.

現(xiàn)年28歲的莫莉·普賴斯是丹佛的一名客戶體驗(yàn)協(xié)理員，她將在10月底與未婚夫埃里克·索倫森步入婚姻的殿堂。然而，ChatGPT對(duì)此早已知情。

The couple got engaged last December after meeting at a summer camp six years ago， where Price was a camp photographer and Sorensen was a counselor and tennis instructor.

這對(duì)情侶6年前在一個(gè)夏令營(yíng)中相識(shí)，并于去年12月訂婚，當(dāng)時(shí)普賴斯是營(yíng)地?cái)z影師，索倫森則是輔導(dǎo)員兼網(wǎng)球教練。

Price describes their relationship as “fun， supportive， and a little bit chaotic.” Those qualities sit at the heart of everything the couple has written in preparation for the wedding—from the text of their wedding website， to their toast speeches， to the vows they’ll recite to each other.

普賴斯將他們的關(guān)系形容為“富有趣味，相互扶持，然而也略帶些許混亂”。這些特質(zhì)構(gòu)成了這對(duì)情侶婚禮籌備過(guò)程中所有文字的核心——從婚禮網(wǎng)站的文本到他們的祝酒詞，再到彼此宣讀的誓言。

And they’ve outsourced almost 90% of that writing to AI， Price told Insider.

普萊斯告訴商業(yè)內(nèi)幕網(wǎng)站，他們將幾乎90%的寫(xiě)作任務(wù)都外包給了AI。

Wedding vows in the ChatGPT age

ChatGPT時(shí)代的婚禮誓言

A few months ago， Price began testing out AI tools like OpenAI’s ChatGPT and the Writer’s Block Assistant， a free content-creation tool launched in March by Joy， a wedding platform that allows couples to design wedding websites， invitations， and build a registry.

幾個(gè)月前，普萊斯開(kāi)始嘗試運(yùn)用一些AI工具，比如美國(guó)開(kāi)放人工智能研究中心旗下的ChatGPT，以及婚禮策劃平臺(tái)“喬伊”3月份推出的免費(fèi)內(nèi)容創(chuàng)作工具“寫(xiě)作障礙助手”。“喬伊”可幫助新人設(shè)計(jì)婚禮網(wǎng)站、請(qǐng)柬以及結(jié)婚禮物登記。

Price is now using ChatGPT and Joy’s AI assistant to write the vows she’ll recite to Sorensen on their wedding day.

普賴斯目前正在使用ChatGPT和“喬伊”旗下的AI助手來(lái)撰寫(xiě)她將在婚禮當(dāng)天對(duì)索倫森宣讀的誓詞。

“I mean， we’ve been together for a while. We’ve been through a lot， so there’s a lot of things that I want to include，” she said. “It’s kind of a Frankenstein culmination for me.”

她說(shuō)：“我的意思是我們已經(jīng)共度了相當(dāng)長(zhǎng)的時(shí)光，也經(jīng)歷了許多風(fēng)風(fēng)雨雨，因此有很多回憶我都想要寫(xiě)進(jìn)我的誓詞。對(duì)我而言，這種感覺(jué)就像弗蘭肯斯坦故事中那個(gè)高潮。”

She’s using the Writer’s Block Assistant to generate the initial text. Unlike ChatGPT， which is designed to field an unlimited set of questions， Price prefers Joy’s AI assistant as a starting point because it offers a structured set of questions about the content of the vows and the tone.

她正在使用“寫(xiě)作障礙助手”來(lái)生成初稿。普賴斯更喜歡以“喬伊”旗下的AI助手入手撰稿，因?yàn)榕cChatGPT專門解答無(wú)休無(wú)止的問(wèn)題不同，它提供了有關(guān)誓詞內(nèi)容和語(yǔ)氣的一套條理清晰的問(wèn)題。

The tool is accessible via Joy’s website and uses OpenAI’s technology to draft “wedding-related wordage” as the company describes it.

正如該公司所描述的那樣：人們可以在“喬伊”網(wǎng)站中使用該工具，并利用美國(guó)開(kāi)放人工智能研究中心的技術(shù)來(lái)起草“與婚禮相關(guān)的文案”。

Users input the type of text they’re looking for help with， whether that’s their vows， a love story for their wedding website， or even thank-you notes.

用戶可以輸入他們需要的文本類型，無(wú)論是誓詞、婚禮網(wǎng)站的愛(ài)情故事，甚至是感謝信，皆可依靠AI的幫助。

Then they’re asked to enter information about the context， or the story it will highlight， and their preferred style of writing. The style options are as benign as “a friend，” as esoteric as the poet Rumi1， or as salty as a “pessimistic ex.”

接下來(lái)，他們需要輸入相關(guān)背景信息或者要突出的故事情節(jié)，以及他們所偏愛(ài)的寫(xiě)作風(fēng)格。風(fēng)格選項(xiàng)包括“朋友式”溫和可親的、如詩(shī)人魯米一樣深?yuàn)W難懂的，或是像個(gè)“悲觀前任”那樣辛辣笑謔的。

Then， Price is running that text through ChatGPT to add humor， voice， and color.

隨后，普賴斯利用ChatGPT對(duì)該文本進(jìn)行處理，以增添幽默感、語(yǔ)氣和趣味。

“I use ChatGPT to kind of change the tone-of-voice and make it a little less robotic. which is weird because it’s coming from AI，” Price said. She added that ChatGPT also offers more facility with editing text， whether that’s by pointing out sections to cut， or suggesting areas that could use more details.

“我用ChatGPT來(lái)改變語(yǔ)音語(yǔ)調(diào)，讓它不那么機(jī)械化。這很奇怪，因?yàn)樗茿I生成的。”普賴斯說(shuō)。她又補(bǔ)充道，ChatGPT還提供了更多編輯文本的功能，包括指出需要?jiǎng)h減的部分，還包括建議更加細(xì)化的地方。

Wedding stress relief—powered by ChatGPT

緩解婚禮壓力，ChatGPT來(lái)相助

AI tools have helped Price streamline her thoughts， and turn them into a written product， which has also eased some of her wedding planning anxiety.

AI工具幫助普賴斯理清了思路，并將其轉(zhuǎn)化為書(shū)面材料，有效減輕了她籌備婚禮的焦慮。

“Essentially， to me， coming up with a speech felt like having a big research paper， so it definitely took the stress away from that，” Price said. She later told Insider by email that words aren’t her strong suit， especially in front of a crowd.

普賴斯表示：“就我個(gè)人而言，寫(xiě)演講稿就如同撰寫(xiě)一篇巨型篇幅的研究論文，所以使用人工智能無(wú)疑減輕了我的壓力。”她后來(lái)通過(guò)電子郵件向商業(yè)內(nèi)幕網(wǎng)站透露，言語(yǔ)表達(dá)并非她的強(qiáng)項(xiàng)，尤其是當(dāng)面對(duì)一大群人的時(shí)候。

And Price is apparently not alone. According to an online questionnaire Joy conducted in February through its Instagram story that surveyed more 1，350 people—both users and non-users of the platform—89% of respondents found it “somewhat overwhelming” to begin writing their wedding materials.

普賴斯顯然并非個(gè)例。今年2月，婚禮策劃平臺(tái)“喬伊”通過(guò)其照片墻賬號(hào)的“故事”功能對(duì)超過(guò)1350人（包括該平臺(tái)的用戶和非用戶）進(jìn)行了在線問(wèn)卷調(diào)查，結(jié)果顯示，89%的受訪者認(rèn)為開(kāi)始撰寫(xiě)婚禮材料“有些力不從心”。

It’s not exactly a scientific look at the issue， but still， 57% said they would consider using an AI assistant like ChatGPT to jumpstart the writing process for wedding materials.

盡管這并非是嚴(yán)格的科學(xué)調(diào)查，但仍有57%的人表示，他們會(huì)考慮使用ChatGPT之類的AI助手來(lái)幫忙快速撰寫(xiě)婚禮材料。

Price said that without the AI tools， she would have just gotten up and said， “Thank you mom and dad.”

普賴斯表示，如果沒(méi)有AI工具的幫助，她可能只會(huì)直接站起來(lái)，說(shuō)句“非常感謝我的父母。”

1指莫拉維·賈拉魯丁·魯米（1207—1273），波斯神秘主義詩(shī)人，被稱為“人類偉大的精神導(dǎo)師”和“屬于整個(gè)人類的偉大的人文主義者”。