摘 要 在幼兒時期由于孩子對感情的渴望不能滿足、厭煩心理的產生、好奇心被控制、自尊心被傷害等原因,可能會對幼兒性格的發展產生消極的影響,如果這些消極影響沒有被及時發現并解決,可能會形成執拗性格。本篇以閑不住、愛破壞、總說“不”等幼兒執拗性格的表現為切入點,深入剖析了幼兒在人生第一反抗期出現的執拗性格的產生的原因,詳細地闡述了執拗性格對幼兒成長發展的積極影響和消極影響。最后提出了教育執拗性格幼兒的建議,即關注幼兒,鼓勵幼兒;心理輔導,促進成長;開展有針對性的教育活動,因材施教;家園配合,鞏固教育成果等。
關鍵詞 幼兒 執拗性格 家長
中圖分類號:G610 文獻標識碼:A
Discussion on the Impact of Stubborn Personality to the
Growth and Development of Young Children
GE Yanru
(Pre-school Education Department, College of Education, Suihua University, Suihua, Heilongjiang 152061)
Abstract In early childhood, because the child can not satisfy the desire for emotional, psychological produce boredom, curiosity is controlled, self-esteem was hurt and other reasons, have a negative impact on the development of young children, might be interested in the character, if there is no negative impact to be identified and resolved may form stubborn character. In this restless love destruction, always say \"no\" and other early childhood stubborn character performance as the starting point, in-depth analysis of the causes of children in the life of the first period against the stubborn character appears generated, detailed description of the stubborn character positive impact on the growth and development of children and negative effects. Finally, suggestions stubborn character education of young children, that concern children, encourage children; psychological counseling, to promote growth; develop targeted educational activities, individualized; homes with consolidating educational outcomes and so on.
Key words young children; stubborn personality; parents
1 執拗性格幼兒的表現
孩子對于每個家庭來說都是焦點,是集眾多寵愛于一身的寶貝。尤其對于3~6歲的幼兒來說,他們的自我意識正在形成,同時自尊心、好奇心、滿足欲都在不斷增強。因此,在幼兒時期有一部分孩子表現出很執拗的性格,主要表現為四個方面的行為。
1.1 閑不住
幼兒在自己設想的世界里做著自己想做的事。比如,擺弄一些東西,東跑跑西竄竄。在幼兒的思維中,他們的想法具有不可逆轉性,因此,一旦在他們的腦海中形成了要做某件事情的想法,那么,幼兒一定會十分專心地沉醉在自己設想的世界中做自己想做的事情。將家長的干預視為一種打擾。
1.2 愛破壞
對于成年人所規定的條條框框總是表現得很抗拒,不會被成年人定下的秩序所約束,也總在試圖打破秩序。……