人生不需要等待

Many people are constantly waiting for their life to start. “When Im older Ill do this.” and“In a few years Ill do that.” They think the life they are experiencing is boring and meaningless.

Who has never viewed himself/herself as worthless and unattractive？

In others eyes， you were always“the funny one”and became loud and over confident to mask what you were actually feeling， but few people know about the way you felt.

All of us may suffer with depression and frustration， lose guidance and support， need aids physically， emotionally， or spiritually.

Just think like this way：

“This too shall pass.”

Horrible feelings I am feeling will eventually go away.

I need to stop feeling so sorry for myself and actually want to change. I am an incredibly lucky person who have come from a family who love and support my whole life.

I had to be the one to make the decision to change my way of thinking.

All the good things and all the wonderful people in my life would pass eventually too. While I am feeling miserable， my life is still going on and I am missing out on appreciating those precious moments.

We all have horrible things happen to us that will affect each of us differently.

The important thing to remember is that our problems arent what defines us. What defines us is how we deal with what has happened to us; how we change the way we think about it.

We can either let it become us or we can use our new-found wisdom to change the little bit of world around us all.

Theres something much bigger than us and our problems. It is always important to remember that there is always someone who is in a position much worse than our own.

Nevertheless， I am well on the way to becoming the person I want to be and I have goals and expectations of myself. I am now aware that my life has started.

It started years ago and its not nearly over yet. Its happening right now. Yours is too.

人生有兩大選擇：要么接受現實，要么接受改變現狀的責任。——丹尼斯·魏特利

很多人都在等待自己生命的新起點，總說“等我長大一點，我會做這個”又或者“幾年后，我要做那個”。他們覺得現在的生活很乏味無趣。

誰不曾覺得自己是毫無價值、毫不吸引人的人？

在別人的眼中，你一直是一個“很有趣的人”。你用大聲喧囂和過度的自信來掩蓋自己真正的感覺，別人并不知道你的感受。

我們所有人都會經歷挫折和沮喪，失去指引和支持，需要物質、情感和精神上的幫助。

請這么想：

這一切都會過去的。

所有的恐懼不安終有一天會煙消云散。

不應再自怨自艾，而要切切實實地謀求改變。能有一個愛護和支持自己的家庭，你已經是世上非常幸運的人了。

只有你可以決定自己想法的轉變。

在你生命中所有好的事情、身邊很棒的人，同樣會有離你而去的一天。當自己沉溺于痛苦之中，而生命的時間漏斗仍不停流轉，那你將錯過享受那些珍貴時刻。

每個人都會遇上些可怕的事情，但那些事對不同的人的影響卻不盡相同。

重要的是，你要記住，我們遇到的問題不能決定我們會成為什么樣的人。能決定我們成為什么樣的人的，是我們處理問題的方法，以及我們對待問題的方式。

我們可以放任自流，也可以利用我們發現的新智慧改變我們所處的小世界。

比我們自身和我們所遇到的問題還重要的事情大有所在。切勿忘記永遠有人比我們遭遇的更糟糕。

然而，我們有自己的目標和期待，并在自己選擇的人生道路上很好地前進著。我們必須從現在起意識到屬于自己的人生其實已經開始。

我的人生在好久之前已經開始了，而且還沒結束。現在還是進行時。你的也一樣。