你應該改變的10個不良習慣

1. Remarkable people give up playing it safe.

No one has ever achieved greatness by playing it safe. And ironically， in this very rapidly changing world， playing it safe is one of the riskiest things you can do. To get back on track means being brave and fearless， because playing it safe is deciding you don’t want to grow anymore.

2. Remarkable people give up self-doubt.

The truth， of course， is that everyone experiences self-doubt at times. But you can’t allow your doubt to keep you stuck. Remind yourself of how far you’ve come， remember everything you’ve been through and had to face， think about the battles you’ve won and all the fears you’ve overcome. Don’t give doubt room to take hold.

3. Remarkable people give up being baffled.

When things don’t work out and when they go wrong， it’s because there is something for you to learn. But you can’t learn if you’re stuck trying the same thing over and over. Break free and approach problems from a different direction.

4. Remarkable people give up self-judgment.

Judging anyone harshly—especially yourself—is never useful， and being overly critical is never productive. If you feel like everyone else is judging you， ask yourself if you’re really hearing your own voice. Treat yourself with the compassion and care you’d give to someone else.

5. Remarkable people give up disillusionment.

Nothing worthwhile is easy； the most difficult challenges are often the most rewarding and satisfying.

6. Remarkable people give up being controlled by others.

It might be tempting to let others make decisions for you， especially when you feel off track， but if anything， that creates even bigger problems. Tap into your own passion to move beyond the obstacles in your way.

7. Remarkable people give up being stuck.

Letting go does not mean giving up but accepting there are things in life that should not be. Letting go is often what it takes to become stronger， happier， and more successful in the long run.

8. Remarkable people give up being derailed.

Try to focus on what you are aiming at instead of what is derailing you.

9. Remarkable people give up negativity.

Positive thinking isn’t about expecting the best thing to happen every time； it’s about accepting that whatever happens is good for the moment and then making the best of it. Be positive and give up focusing on what is negative.

10. Remarkable people give up being perfect.

Know that we all have two choices： Either we do nothing and give into procrastination， or we start chasing our dreams， our visions， our ideas. Begin by doing something， don’t wait for perfect. Even if it’s not exactly the right direction， just get up and start moving.

1.杰出人士行事不走安樂之道。

行事講究萬全之人難以創(chuàng)造偉大。而且諷刺的是，在這個瞬息萬變的世界，小心謹慎、不敢冒險可能算是一件最為冒險的事。東山再起意味著勇敢無畏，因為謹慎得不敢冒險正表現出你決定不再有任何成長。

2.杰出人士不會自我懷疑。

當然事實是，每個人都有自我懷疑的時候，可是你不能深陷自我懷疑而止步不前。提醒你自己在人生之路上已經走了多遠，記住所有你經歷過、需要面對的事，想一想你贏得的人生戰(zhàn)役以及你克服了的所有恐懼。不要給自我懷疑留有空間。

3.杰出人士不讓自己迷茫。

當事情進展不順利、出現問題時，這是因為你需要學習。但如果你一直在做同樣的事情，那你不可能學到任何東西。掙脫束縛，從新的視角來解決問題。

4.杰出人士不會對自己苛責。

嚴厲審視他人，尤其是如此對你自己，是沒有用處的。而且太過苛刻從不會帶來多大成效。如果你感覺其他所有人都在評判你，那么捫心自問你是否真的在聽從自己的心聲。用你會給予他人的寬容和關懷對待自己。

5.杰出人士不會自我麻痹。

毫無意義的事容易完成，而最難克服的挑戰(zhàn)總是那些回報最高、最令人滿意的事。

6.杰出人士不會受他人控制。

也許讓他人幫你做決定很誘人，尤其是在你覺得事情超出自己把控時。可是如果這樣做，這甚至將給你帶來更大的問題。匯集自身的熱情來跨越阻擋你的障礙。

7.杰出人士不會一根筋。

放手不意味著放棄，而是承認有些事是其生命中不該有的。……