Languages of Love： 10 Unusual Terms of Endearment 蜜語甜言：異乎尋常的10種愛稱

Some terms of endearment can be used in many languages—“baby，” “angel” and “sweetheart” for example. But some dont travel as well as you might think. If you call a French person “honey” （miel） he or she may take it as an unflattering comparison with a sticky mess.

And how would you react if someone called you a cauliflower1）， a flea or a baby elephant？ Here is a quick guide to the language of love around the world—dominated by metaphors from cookery and the animal kingdom—with contributions by language coach Paul Noble.

Little Cabbage （French）

Petit chou

“Chou” （cabbage） is the French equivalent of “sweetheart.” “Chou” conveys the idea of being small and round and is used to describe French puff pastry2）， often enjoyed as “chou à la crème.” “Chou” is said to resemble a babys or childs head too. Over the years， many French children have been told that boys were born in cabbages and girls in roses. You can double it too—“chouchou” is a standard translation for “darling.”

Pumpkin （Brazil/Portuguese）

Chuchuzinho

“Chuchu” is the word for “squash3）”—but strangely similar to the French “chouchou.” Could a French word have sneaked into Portuguese as a fancy way to refer to a loved one （even though it refers to a different vegetable）？ The ending “zinho，” meaning “little，” emphasises fondness.

An Egg-shaped Face （Japanese）

Tamago gata no kao

In Japan， women are frequently called “an egg-shaped face” by those who love them. This is a great compliment， as having an oval， egg-shaped face is considered very attractive in Japanese culture—you can see this in Japanese paintings through the ages.

Lump of Sugar （Spanish）

Terrón de azúcar

Like “honey” in English， sweet foodstuffs of one kind or another make popular terms of endearment in numerous languages. This popular one in Spanish， “terrón de azúcar” also means “sugar cube.” Apparently， it rates highly on the “sweetness” scale， so use sparingly.

Fruit of My Heart （Indonesian）

Buah hatiku

Although the term can be used romantically， featuring in love songs and poems， today it is most often used to express affection for children. Advertisers use the term to appeal to family-oriented customers， especially young middle-class couples： “The best gift/food/product for ‘the fruit of your heart.” You will also find the term in almost all books and articles on parenting， and it frequently appears as the name of organisations focusing on children， including a hospital near Jakarta.

My Flea （French）

Ma puce

“Ma puce” is roughly equivalent to “sweetie” in English. One theory suggests that it could be linked to the historic relationship shared by humans and fleas—in times past， removing fleas from one another became a one-to-one grooming4） activity， and is alleged to have been a pleasant and sometimes intimate process.

Gazelle5） （Arabic）

Ghazal

Classical Arabic poetry abounds with the imagery of beautiful gazelles （i.e. women， metaphorically speaking）. There are numerous references to the “lethal spears” of a beautiful womans gaze. If you believe the poets， hunters （i.e. men） can die of love-sickness after a single glance from a gazelle. Today too， a man may say to a woman， “You have the eyes of a gazelle.” （“Laki uyounul ghazal”） This may imply that he has fallen under her spell sooner than she has his.

Little Elephant （Thai）

Chang noi

Elephants are the dearest of animals to Thai people. They are supposed to bring good luck， white elephants especially. The elephant symbol might derive from the Hindu god Ganesh6）， reflecting the great influence that Indian culture exerted across this region. Elephants so captured the nations heart that they once became an emblem7） on the countrys flag. “Little elephant” can be used affectionately by an adult to a child—used between adults it would have a different connotation.

Diving Fish， Swooping8） Geese （Chinese）

Chen yu luo yan

There is a story surrounding the greatest beauty in Chinese history， a woman named Xi Shi. Its said that she was so beautiful that when she looked at fish in a pond， the fish were so dazzled by her beauty that they forgot to swim and gradually dived to the bottom. Likewise， when geese flew over a woman called Wang Zhaojun， they were so struck by her beauty that they forgot to flap their wings and ended up swooping to the ground. Because of this， to this day， when a young Chinese man is in love with a Chinese woman， he may indicate that， to him， she is as beautiful as Xi Shi or Wang Zhaojun. To do this， he will say just four words： “Diving fish， swooping geese.”

Little Dove （Russian）

Golubchik （masc）/golubushka （fem）

Pushkin used the word “little dove” to refer affectionately to his elderly nanny in the lines of one of his best-known poems， but she could equally have used it to refer to him when he was a child （and probably did）. As a term of endearment it dates back at least to the Song of Songs in the Old Testament （“O my dove ... let me see thy countenance”）， originally written in Hebrew. The Slavonic translation of the Bible had a profound influence on shaping the Russian language， so the Russian usage could have Biblical roots.

有些愛稱在很多種語言中都能使用，例如“寶貝”“天使”和“甜心”，但有些并不像你想象的那樣通用。如果你稱一個法國人為“蜂蜜”（miel），他或她也許會覺得這是拿一團黏糊糊的東西打了一個不太恭敬的比方。

如果有人稱呼你為“花椰菜”“跳蚤”或是“象寶寶”，你會做出怎樣的反應？本文是世界各地的愛稱——主要是來自烹飪領域和動物世界的暗喻——的快速指南。語言教師保羅·諾布爾參與了本文的撰寫。

小甘藍（法語）

法語中的“chou”（甘藍）相當于“甜心”。“Chou”讓人聯想到小巧、圓鼓鼓的樣子，被用來描述法國酥餅。法國酥餅通常被做成“chou à la crème”（泡芙）享用。據說“chou”還很像嬰兒或兒童的頭。多年來，很多法國孩子都聽過這樣的說法：男孩是從甘藍中出生的，女孩是從玫瑰中出生的。你還可以將其用作疊詞——“chouchou”是“親愛的”這個詞的標準法語譯法。

南瓜（巴西/葡萄牙語）

“Chuchu”是與“南瓜屬植物”相對應的一個詞，但奇怪的是它與法語單詞“chouchou”很相似。難道一個法語單詞溜進了葡萄牙語，成為用來稱呼愛人的一種奇特方式（盡管它指的是另一種蔬菜）？詞尾的“zinho”意為“小的”，強調了寵愛之意。

雞蛋形的臉（日語）

在日本，女性常常被愛她們的人稱為“雞蛋形的臉”。這是一種評價很高的贊美，因為在日本文化中，擁有雞蛋般的橢圓臉型被認為是非常迷人的。你可以從歷代的日本繪畫中發現這一點。

方糖（西班牙語）

就像英語中的“蜂蜜”一樣，在很多語言中，這樣或那樣的甜食會成為常用的愛稱。西班牙語中這個常用的愛稱“terrón de azúcar”就是“方糖”的意思。顯然，這個詞在“甜蜜”等級上排名很高，所以要省著點用。

我心中之果（印度尼西亞語）

盡管這個詞可以用來表達浪漫之意，出現在愛情歌曲和詩歌中，但如今這個詞最常用來表達對兒童的愛。廣告商用這個詞來吸引重視家庭的顧客，特別是年輕的中產階級夫婦：“給‘你心中之果的最佳禮物/食品/產品。”你還可以在幾乎所有關于育兒的圖書和文章中發現這個詞。某些關于兒童的組織也經常以這個詞來命名，包括雅加達附近的一家醫院。

我的跳蚤（法語）

“Ma puce”大致相當于英語中的“親愛的”。一種分析認為，這可能與人類和跳蚤的歷史關系有關——很久以前，相互捉跳蚤的行為成為一種一對一的梳理活動，并且據說已經成為一種愉快且有時很親昵的過程。

瞪羚（阿拉伯語）

經典阿拉伯詩歌中有大量美麗的瞪羚的形象（即女性的隱喻）。很多詩歌將美女的注視稱為“致命的矛”。如果你相信詩人的詩句，那么獵人（即男性）在被一只瞪羚瞥一眼之后可能就會因相思而死去。如今，一位男士也會對一位女士說：“你長著一雙瞪羚的眼睛。”這可能暗示這位男士已經在這位女士被他迷倒之前而被她迷倒了。

象寶寶（泰語）

象是泰國人最喜愛的動物。人們認為象可以帶來好運，特別是白象。象的象征意義可能源自印度神靈加內什，這反映了印度文化對這個地區的重要影響。象令這個國家如此傾心，一度成為泰國國旗上的一個符號。成年人可以把“象寶寶”作為對兒童的愛稱；用于成人之間時，這個詞就有了不同的含義。

沉魚落雁（漢語）

關于中國歷史上最美麗的女子——西施，有這樣一個故事。據說她是如此美麗，當她注視池塘中的魚兒時，魚兒為她的美麗而傾倒，以至于忘記游動，逐漸沉入了水底。類似地，當大雁從一個名為王昭君的女子頭頂飛過時，它們為其美艷而震驚，竟然忘記振翅飛翔，最后墜落到地上。正因為如此，時至今日，當一位中國小伙愛上一位中國姑娘時，他可能會暗示：對于他而言，她就像西施或王昭君一樣美麗。為了表達此意，他只說四個字就行了：“沉魚落雁。”

小鴿子（俄語）

在普希金非常著名的一首詩歌中，他把“小鴿子”這個詞作為對其老保姆的愛稱，但她同樣也可以在普希金還是個孩子的時候用這個詞來稱呼他（可能就是這么稱呼的）。這個詞作為愛稱的用法至少可以追溯到《舊約圣經》中的《雅歌》（“我的鴿子啊……求你容我得見你的面貌”）。《舊約圣經》最早是用希伯來語寫成的。《圣經》的斯拉夫語譯本對俄語的形成產生了深遠的影響，因此俄語中的這個用法可能源自《圣經》。

1. cauliflower [?k?li?fla??（r）] n. [植]花椰菜

2. puff pastry：千層餅，酥餅

3. squash [skw??] n. 南瓜屬植物

4. groom [ɡru?m] vt. 梳毛；使整潔

5. gazelle [ɡ??zel] n. [動]瞪羚（產于非洲和亞洲的一種小羚羊）

6. Ganesh：加內什，長有象首的印度預言神

7. emblem [?embl?m] n. 符號；紋章（圖案）

8. swoop [swu?p] vi. （突然）下落，下降