惟有本色永不過時

What is a natural woman?

The definition seems wide and deep. Despite any preconceived notions， natural women are not a mystery. They are women who are comfortable in who and what they are. They can be versatile. They can be 1)driven. They might choose to be a 2)homebody， a factory worker or a model. No matter what they are and do， natural women are always themselves. The most beautiful women always are.

Why?

Natural women have an 3)aura about them. They find comfort even in their own 4)insecurities. They don’t have to 5)flaunt “I am who I am.” It flows effortlessly from them. They are not afraid of their emotions. They will even share a laugh with you over their flaws. Natural women form deeply based relationships. They don’t depend on cosmetics， perfumes and fashion. They see them for the most part as accessories instead of necessities.

What’s the difference?

They are subtle. I have held hands with women that really are the farthest from natural as can be. The feel in the touch of a natural women is a world apart. A not so natural woman 6)exploits or 7)forces hand holding. They have to think about it. With a natural woman， it just happens. Almost without thought the hands glide together. It’s not a statement. It is a state of being. The kiss of a natural woman is passionate even in the most incidental of expression. Why? She doesn’t have to think about it. It is an 8)involuntary action that originates from the heart. An unnatural woman will seem to start out that way but it fades away over time. Their actions come from what they want not who they are.

Why are they the most beautiful?

Natural women emanate even in their worst of moments “this is me.” They will wake up in the morning and not have to run to the make up table. They glide into the day. Everything is performed with an “I care” aura. The don’t look for glory in what they do and who they are. Yet， their appreciation of recognition is deeper felt and more profoundly expressed.

Who is a natural woman?

She can be anyone because she always is herself. She is a woman not afraid to lead with her heart. She is a woman who， when she cares about you， there is no 9)looking back or over the shoulder. She relates with true lasting emotions. They won’t be swayed. Her feelings are real， 10)worn on her sleeve， and 11)etched in stone. I have met many natural women in my time. I have even met those that pretended to be. Over time the gap widens and the unnatural women are eventually exposed. You may ask， “Can any woman be a natural woman?” The answer is a yes and no that needs a deeper look. Any woman can be a natural woman but few rarely are.

Who are the “unnaturals”?

We have all encountered them. These women put on the air of being natural. Yet， instead of wired and push-up 12)bras， make-up and other beauty enhancers being accessories， they are lifelines of necessity. They really are about appearances. Natural women， as I said， do things from the heart. The unnaturals do things out of self-gain and what suits their purposes at the time. They don’t form true relationships; they form alliances that fit the moment. Unnatural women will change emotions and relationships as they see are in their best interests at the time.

13)Beholding a natural woman

The beauty of a natural woman shines through. To behold one， you have to open up your eyes willingly enough to see the person. When you do you will see natural women are the most beautiful women. You will also see they are all around you.

什么是本色女人？

其定義似乎廣而深。不論這個名詞引發你任何先入之見，本色女人并不是什么神秘的東西。她們安于真我，樂守其分。她們可以是多才多藝，可以進取不息，她們可能選擇家庭至上，也可能成為工廠女工，或者當一名模特。無論她們在從事什么工作，在做著什么事情，本色女人總是展現自己的本色。最美的女人總是最真的。

為什么？

本色女人自身有種光環。她們甚至能泰然接受自己的缺陷。她們沒必要標榜“我就是我”。那種真實自然而然就從她們身上流露出來。她們并不懼怕自己的情感。她們甚至會和你一塊嘲笑她們自身的瑕疵。本色女人與人相交，根深情厚。她們不依賴化妝品、香水和時裝。多數情況下，她們把那些東西看作裝飾品，而非必需品。

本色女人和做作女人有何不同？

區別是微妙的。我跟一些和本色怎么也扯不上邊的女人牽過手，相比跟本色女人牽手的感覺，簡直是天淵之別。做作女人伸手出來，不是有所圖謀就是勉強扭捏。對于牽手，她們得揣度一番。而和一個本色女人牽手，一切自然而然就發生了。幾乎什么都沒想，手就牽在了一起。牽手并不是一種聲明，而是一種“存在”現狀。本色女人接吻時充滿激情，即使是偶然為之。為什么？她無需思索。那是一種發自內心，自然而然的行為。一個做作的女人的吻一開始也是充滿激情的，但那種激情會隨著時日消失。她們做的事情帶有目的性，并非其本色所為。

為什么本色女人最美？……