The Secret of Making Friends交友秘籍

Too many people want others to be their friends， but they dont give friendship back. That is why some friendships dont last very long. To have a friend， you must learn to be one. You must learn to treat your friend the way you want your friend to treat you. Learning to be a good friend means learning three rules： be honest; be generous; be understanding.

Honesty is where a good friendship starts. Friends must be able to trust one another. If you dont tell the truth， people usually find out. If a friend finds out that you havent been honest， you may lose your friends trust. Good friends always count on one another to speak and act honestly.

太多的人想要別人做他們的朋友，但他們卻不以友相待，那就是有些友誼不能持久的原因。要想交朋友，你就必須學會做朋友。你想要你的朋友怎么對待你，你就必須學會以同樣的方式對待你的朋友。學會做朋友意味著要學會三條規則：誠實，慷慨，理解。

誠實是一段良好友誼開始的前提。朋友必須能夠互相信任。如果你不說實話，人們通常能夠發現。如果朋友發現你一直不誠實，你就可能失去朋友的信任。好朋友總是指望相互說實話，辦實事。

Generosity means sharing and sharing makes a friendship grow. You have to learn how to share things you enjoy， your hobbies and interests. Naturally you will want to share your ideas and feelings. These can be valuable to a friend. They tell your friend what is important to you. By sharing them you help your friend know you better.

Sooner or later everyone needs understanding and help with a problem. Something may go wrong at school. Talking about the problem can make it easier to solve. Turning to a friend can be the first step in solving the problem. So to be a friend you must listen and understand. You must try to put yourself in your friends place so you can understand the problem better.

No two friendships are ever exactly alike. But all true friendships have three things in common. If you plan to keep your friends， you must practise honesty， generosity and understanding.

慷慨意味著分享，分享增進友誼。你必須學會如何分享你喜歡的東西、你的愛好和興趣。自然而然，你會愿意分享你的想法和情感。這些對朋友來說是寶貴的。告訴你的朋友，什么對你來說是重要的。分享，能幫助你的朋友更好地了解你。

每個人或早或晚都需要理解，需要幫助解決問題。學校里可能有什么事會出現差錯，與他人談論這個問題能夠使你更容易解決它。求助朋友可以是解決問題的第一步。所以，作為朋友你必須善于傾聽并理解。你必須設身處地地為朋友著想，這樣才能把問題理解得更透徹。

從來沒有完全相同的兩段友誼，但所有真正的友誼有三點是相同的。如果想要維持友誼，你就必須誠實、慷慨并理解。

Word Bank

count on 指望；依靠

We cant count on the good weather lasting.

practise /'pr?kt?s/ v. 遵循；實踐

We still need to practise some of these rules today.