無(wú)需別人告訴你什么才是美麗

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"If you had to choose, would you prefer a woman with a hot body or a beautiful face?" It's a classic①classic 英 ['kl?s?k] 美 ['kl?s?k] adj. 經(jīng)典的；古典的，傳統(tǒng)的；最優(yōu)秀的n. 名著；經(jīng)典著作；大藝術(shù)家question that every woman wants to ask their boyfriend.

I once read an article that said, nowadays②nowadays 英 ['na??de?z] 美 ['na??dez]adv. 現(xiàn)今；時(shí)下n. 當(dāng)今, some women wouldn't let their boyfriends see their real face.

Part of the reason they behave this way is people impose③impose 英 [?m'p??z] 美 [?m'poz]vi. 利用；欺騙；施加影響vt. 強(qiáng)加；征稅；以……欺騙stereotyped④stereotyped 英 ['ster??ta?pt] 美 ['st??r?ota?pt]adj. 用鉛版印刷的；老一套的v. 把……澆鑄成鉛版；使成為陳規(guī)（stereotyp的過(guò)去分詞）ideas about beauty on them. The other part of the reason is they are not confident enough about themselves.

So, instead of asking men to answer this question,women should bear in mind that the scope of beauty is getting broader and broader. Only when they really appreciate⑤appreciate 英 [?'pri???e?t; -s?-] 美 [?'pri??et]vt. 欣賞；感激；領(lǐng)會(huì)；鑒別vi. 增值；漲價(jià)their own beauty, will they become more conf i dent⑥con fi dent 英 ['k?nf?d(?)nt] 美 ['kɑnf?d?nt]adj. 自信的；確信的.

"I feel free, once I realized I was never going to fi t the narrow mold⑦mold 英 [m??ld] 美 [mold]vt. 塑造；使發(fā)霉；用模子制作vi. 發(fā)霉n. 霉菌；模子that society wanted me to fi t in," reads a quote from Ashley Graham, the fi rst plus-size model to appear on the cover of Vogue.

We don't want to see similar beautiful faces on the street,looking like products from the same assembly⑧assembly 英 [?'sembl?] 美 [?'s?mbli] n. 裝配；集會(huì)，集合line.

Don't label yourself a certain kind of woman. Be the woman that gets to decide who you are and how you should look. Being different is beautiful; being conf i dent is beautiful;being real is beautiful.

“如果你不得不做出選擇，你會(huì)選擇身材好還是顏值高的女人？”這是一個(gè)老生常談的問(wèn)題，每個(gè)女人都想這樣問(wèn)她們的男友。

我曾經(jīng)讀過(guò)的一篇文章稱，現(xiàn)今一些女性不會(huì)讓她們的男友看到自己的素顏。

她們之所以會(huì)這樣做，部分原因是人們會(huì)將關(guān)于美麗的刻板印象強(qiáng)加在她們身上。而另一部分原因則是女性對(duì)自己不夠自信。

因此，女人們不應(yīng)該叫男人回答這個(gè)問(wèn)題，而是要在心里謹(jǐn)記，美麗的范圍正變得越來(lái)越廣。只有當(dāng)女人真正懂得欣賞自己的美麗之后，她們才會(huì)變得更加自信。

時(shí)尚雜志《VOGUE》第一個(gè)大碼超模阿什利·格雷厄姆有一句名言：“當(dāng)我意識(shí)到不會(huì)委屈自己縮進(jìn)這個(gè)社會(huì)想讓我適應(yīng)的狹窄模具時(shí)，我就感覺(jué)到了自由。”

我們并不想在街上看到雖然很美、卻像同一個(gè)流水線生產(chǎn)出來(lái)的產(chǎn)品一樣的臉龐。

不要給自己貼上是某種女人的標(biāo)簽。你應(yīng)該成為那種自己決定自己是誰(shuí)、自己決定自己是什么樣子的女人。與眾不同就是美、充滿自信就是美、真實(shí)不虛就是美！