男生心中的完美女友

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男生心中的完美女友

The Perfect Girlfriend in the Views of Boys

繪/ 小雨點

We're feeling a little misty-eyed thinking about true love. Well, you can create your own relationship success by looking for the right traits in a woman instead of just swiping right on everyone on Tinder.

1. She's Independent

No one gets into a relationship to be a babysitter. If she can't seem to function without you, you'll eventually suffocate①suffocate 英 ［'s?f?ke?t］ 美 ［'s?f?ket］ vi. 受阻，受扼制；窒息 vt. 壓制，阻礙；使……窒息The outcome is， once again， deadly. You will suffocate. 結果只會是，再一次的致命——你會窒息而死。同近義詞： silence ， slow, and if you're sm art you'll run for the nearest exit.

2. She's Intelligent

I hate to be the one to tell you this, but the bimbo routine gets real old, real fast. An intelligent woman will constantly surprise you and keep you on your toes. She won't let you get bored or complacent②complacent 英 ［k?m'ple?s（?）nt］ 美 ［k?m'plesnt］ adj. 自滿的；得意的；滿足的同近義詞：adj. proud ， fulfilled Don't be complacent over occasional success. Don't feel self-satisfied over a minor success.不要沾沾自喜于一得之功。.

3. You're Attracted To Her

I know, this one is kind of obvious, but important nonetheless. Being seen with her should make you feel better about yourself. And this doesn't mean that she has to be a Heidi Klum clone. Your m utual attraction should m ake you both want to stay looking your best.

4 . She Respects You

This is a biggie. A great girlfriend will keep major disputes private rather than taking you down in public.

5. She Lets You Be A Man

If she's a great girlfriend, she'll even bring you and your buddies a couple of beers and make you some of her famous sandwiches.

6. She Gets A long With Y our Friends And Family

She'll help your parents out at Thanksgiving, try to understand your brother's twisted③twist 英 ［tw?st］ 美 ［tw?st］ vt. 捻；擰；扭傷；編織；使苦惱 n. 扭曲；擰；扭傷 vi. 扭動；彎曲twists and turns 迂回曲折 twist drill n. 麻花鉆；螺旋鉆 twist and turn 迂回曲折 twist angle 扭轉角twist off 扭斷；擰開 Gin and tonic with a twist of lemon. 杜松子酒里有一塊扭曲的檸檬。sense of humor. Your friends won't roll their eyes and moan when you mention that she'll be joining you guys when she gets off work—she's one of the crowd.

7 She Loves You

If you have found a wom an who loves you for who you really are and not who you pretend or try to be som etim es, you should definitely hang on to her.

作為男生，我們有時會對真愛長什么樣有些迷惑。如果基于以下幾點特質尋找，你就會找到完美愛侶，再也不用在Tinder到處瀏覽。

1. 獨立

誰也不想變成另一半的老媽子。如果她離了你就不行，總有一天你會窒息崩潰的。你要足夠聰明，就趕快逃開！

2.智慧

我真不想提醒你，但女人易老如鮮花易逝。智慧的女性會持續帶來驚喜，令人振奮！你不會無聊，也不會沾沾自喜。

3.她吸引你

這個看起來顯而易見，但真的很重要！和她走在一起，你應該感到自豪。不是說她得變成海蒂·克魯姆（維密天使之一）的樣子，而是你們能互相吸引、持續點亮對方的優點！

4. 她尊重你

這條重要了！一個超棒的女友是不會讓你在公開場合下不來臺的，她會把爭議放在私下解決。

5. 她讓你更Man

一個完美女友會在你和哥們兒相處時給你拿幾瓶啤酒，做幾份她秘制的三明治。

6. 她和你的親友相處甚歡

她會幫你爸媽一起準備感恩節，試著聽懂你兄弟曲折的笑話。你的朋友不會在聽說她要一起來玩時哀鴻遍野。她是你社交圈的一分子！

7. 她愛你

如果你碰到一個女人，她喜愛的是你真實的模樣，而不是你時而的偽裝，這時你一定要緊緊抓住她！