暗戀一個人的時候，你都做過那些事

繪/馬豆子

暗戀一個人的時候，你都做過那些事

What DO You Do If You Have a Crush on Someone

繪/馬豆子

Tejasvita Apte：

I walk up to him and tell him straight on his face.

There isn't a single crush①crush 英 ［kr??］ 美 ［kr??］ n. 粉碎；迷戀；壓榨；擁擠的人群 have a crush on sb 迷戀……eg.Today， I found some pictures of the boy I have a crush on online.of mine who didn't know I had a crush on him. I have always made sure he knows.

Most have thanked me. S ome reciprocated②reciprocated reciprocate的過去式 reciprocate 英 ［r?'s?pr?ke?t］ 美 ［r?'s?pr?ket］ vt. 報答；互換；互給vi. 往復運動；互換；酬答；互給the interest. Som e didn't.

T o leav e this world without expressing love is a pity. I have therefore always expressed love and will continue to do so.

Go express love. The world needs it.

Alison Cox：

Sometimes you 'crush' on someone because something they did or said resonated③resonated resonate的過去分詞 resonate 英 ［'rez（?）ne?t］ 美 ［'r?z?'net］ vt. 共鳴；共振 vi. 共鳴；共振eg. Yesterday I read a book that really resonated with me.昨天我讀了一本很能引起我共鳴的書。with a part of you.

Y ou form a connection with that person and suddenly you can't stop④can't stop 停不下來 eg. But we can't stop living. 然而，我們不能停止生活。thinking about them.

It's totally natural but you have to consider other factors before deciding to act on a crush.

If you're both single, then why not get to know that person better.

I wouldn't was t e t i me wondering and just ask that person if they'd like to get to know you better too over a coffee.

If you're crushing on someone when it's not appropriate to make a move, just enjoy the fluttery⑤fluttery adj. 焦急不安的feelings.

Eventually you may get to know some other aspects of that person that will diminish the crush.

Roshna Nazir：

Try all possible ways to garner⑥garner 英 ［'ɡɑ?n?］ 美 ［'ɡɑrn?］ vt. 獲得；儲存；把……儲入谷倉 n. 谷倉his attention without letting him know how I feel about him.

So basically, the whole idea is to portray myself as The Queen Bee to make sure he's impressed, so that he approaches me before I do.

If it's here on Quora, vote up⑦vote up 好評few intellectually stimulating answers on topics which I have no clue about, cross-check⑧my profile and display picture, and then post an attentionseeking com m ent on one of his answers to m ake sure he visits m y profile.

Vineet Singh：

During school days, Being a typical Introvert⑨introvert 英 ［'?ntr?v??t］ 美 ［'?ntr?v?t］ n. 內向的人；內翻的東西vt. 使內向；使內傾；使內彎 vi. 成為內彎；成為性格內向的人, I never had the courage to speak to her.

A ll I used to do was convince myself that she has the same level of crush on me, you know like a total douche-bag⑩douche-bag 討厭鬼；沖洗袋.

No matter how much she ignores, doesn't give a damn, stays aloof?aloof 英 ［?'lu?f］ 美 ［?'luf］ adj. 冷淡的；遠離的；冷漠的 adv. 遠離地；避開地, I still kind of conclude that she might have a crush on me.

e.g.

When my crush starts talking to someone in front of me, I conclude that she is just trying to make me feel jealous.

When she sits with some other guy during a bus trip, i conclude that she is just shy to sit with me.

When she turns her head backward to talk to someone who is sitting behind me, I conclude that she really wanted to see me.

Like this, like that, I kept myself happy soon to realize the bitter sweet lie/truth.

Now, I just observe and hopes nothing.

I love the way her fringe of hair comes right in front of her face and

今天，我搜到了一些我一直深愛的那個男孩的照片。then she puts it back behind her ears.

When she tie her pony with a pin m eanwhile concentrating hard on her PC.

I guess crushes are like chocolate brownie with hot v anilla f udge. Something that needs to be savored till it last.

Tejasvita Apte

我會走向他，當面告白。

我喜歡過的人幾乎都知道我的心意。（也包括在Quora上喜歡過的人！）我總是讓對方知道我的想法。

他們中的大多數都對我的愛意表示感謝。有的表示也喜歡我。有的不喜歡我。

沒能表達出內心的愛就離開這個世界實在是一件憾事。所以我一直都在表達愛，也會一直如此。

大膽地表達出愛意吧。這個世界需要愛。

Alison Cox：

有時候，一個人的言行舉止引起了你的共鳴，你會因此對他產生一種迷戀。

你和他之間形成了一種聯系，而突然間你開始情不自禁地幻想這一切。

盡管表達愛意合乎常情，但是在決定采取行動之前也要考慮一下其他因素。

要是你們二人都是單身，那么何不多多地了解對方。

我才不會浪費時間自己瞎想，而是直接問他是否愿意一起喝杯咖啡，多了解我一下。

要是你喜歡上的人不適合追求，就慢慢享受這種焦躁不安的小情緒吧。

反正最后總是要了解到這個人的其他方面的，喜歡也會隨之淡薄了。

Roshna Nazir：

我會使出渾身解數，吸引他的注意力，但是不會讓對方知道我的小心思。

所以基本上，這個方法就是扮演蜂后的角色，確定他動了心，這樣他就會在我采取行動之前先追求我。

如果我喜歡上了Quora用戶，我會先在話題中找到幾條高智商答案，默默點贊，雖然我完全不知道這些講的都是什么，再核對一下我的個人資料，頭像圖片，之后在他的一個回答下寫上一條足以引人注意的評論，確保他會訪問我的主頁。

Vineet Singh：

上學的時候，我很內向，幾乎從不敢跟她講話。

我過去經常告訴自己，她也一樣喜歡我。你們知道的，我就像個傻蛋一樣。

不管她多么不理睬我，對我多么不屑一顧，我仍然認為她可能喜歡我。

例如：

每當她在我面前和別人講話，我都認為是她故意讓我嫉妒。

每當公車旅行她和別的男生坐在一起，我都認為是她不好意思坐在我旁邊。

每當她轉過頭和我身后的人講話，我都認為她其實只是想看我一眼。

點點滴滴，我樂此不疲，但不久就了解到了這苦澀甜蜜的謊言和事實。

現在，我只默默凝視著她，不會再心存幻想了。

我喜歡她額前的一綹頭發突然垂下來擋住了臉頰，然后她把頭發輕輕別到耳后。

喜歡看她一邊用頭針扎起馬尾一邊還目不轉睛地盯著電腦的樣子。

我猜，暗戀就像沾著熱香草軟糖的巧克力布朗尼，不到最后一刻，香濃不減。