As the Chinese saying goes,“Example is better than precept.” Every father should remember that one day his son will follow his example. Success in training the boy and largely depends upon his son will follow his example. “Children are watching you and doing as you do,not as you say…”An expert from Harvard once said. It is also true to us adults. We more easily find our way in life when we have an example to follow. Good examples have incredible power.
中國有句俗話,“身教勝于言傳。”每一位父親都應該記住,有一天他的兒子會以父親為榜樣。能否成功培養一個孩子很大程度上取決于他是否是一個好的榜樣。哈佛大學一位教育學家曾說過,“孩子是通過觀察來模仿,并不是通過指令來完成…這種觀點對于成年人來說同樣適用。當我們樹立了自己的榜樣,我們就不會迷失方向。好的榜樣能產生不可思議的巨大力量。